>> i try to forget my lines. [ laughter ] >> and how good are you at that? >> you know, very good. you know the secret is that we have each other. >> uh-huh. >> that is the secret. >> uh-huh. >> we can do anything if we have each other. >> uh-huh. >> and we still keep, we still keep the relationship the priority in terms of, you know, if we than we're good together, then everything is possible. if year -- we're not, everything is overwhelming. >> to keep making sure we're working on this. that is important. >> how do you deal with the women who have dealt with breast cancer as we both have? >> uh-huh. >> and not -- i finished my chemo a year agoy and i think what is next? hold your breath. i had my first mammogram successfully last week, thank goodness and you think there is the next one. >> right. >> and what is over the shoulder, you know? >> that is right. that's right. we're, you know, you only go in one direction, which is older. [ laughter ] >> you don't go the other way. there is nothing to do about that. >> yeah. >> and the secret, the trick is live. >> yeah. >> live while